The 3 Secrets of the Mind

 THE 3 SECRETS OF THE MIND
Some say the mind is very mysterious and bizarre.
Some look at their lives and say there are Devils and Angels doing things to them.
Some blame the stars and cards, gods and gurus, 
religion and politicians. However,
our mind is very very very simple, 

First - Who Are You?
It really helps to get things in order of priority.
You have a mind, you are not your mind
You have a body, you are not your body
You are a Whole Spirit directly connected to the Source of All life, with a programed Mind in a human DNA crafted Body.

There are only 3 things you need to know about your mind
1. It does what it thinks you want it to do
2. It responds to the imagined pictures and words you entertain
3. It will always guide you to what's familiar

So lets look at this in detail.

1. Your mind does what it thinks & believes is in your best interest, 
your mind does what it believes you want it to do.

if you are secretly dreading the thing you are trying to do, your mind will say 
"Oh, she doesn't want that, we are going to make sure she never has to get that or do that" 

If you don't have what you say you really want then for sure your mind is listening to your secret desire and giving that to you instead.

It does not believe the 1st part of the statement if there is a Secret Stealth BUT.
 
I want more clients --- but I hate having to do all that work, I'm really not paid well and they are such a bother.
I want to be a speaker --- but it just kills me to have to prepare and get on stage. 
I want to have a million dollars--- but no one I know has that & I'd really love to just curl up in bead and read a good book instead.
I'd love to go meet some new people ---- but I hate going to all that trouble.
I want to loose weight ---- but wine, cheese, cookies and cake make me happy they make everything better. 
I want to exercise --- but it's such a bother and I get all sweaty and it's so hard and I'm always late for work.

Every SECRET IF, AND or BUT kills the affirmation!

SECRET buts, reasonings, excuses, regrets, worries, doubts, fears or warnings up root the seeds you are trying to plant.

If the statement feels NORMAL, NATURAL, INTERESTING, CURIOUS, FUN & SAFE
then the mind says , Ok we can deliver that! Right a way, no problem. Let's find her that ASAP.

2. Your mind responds to the Sensory Story, Images & Pictures 
you make in your head and the emotional words you say to your self about everything. 

When you see marketing & advertising that says this is a Happy meal, this is the Fun size this is Divine, Indulgence, Decadence and don't question it
then your mind wants that and makes sure you get it, have it and eat it ... even marry it...

Like needles, if the needle is attached to a result we want then we go for it, but if it's only related to pain then we avoid it.
The pictures in our head drive all the behavior.
If a plane is a flying coffin forget going in a plane
It would kill me to give up pizza so we don't
I might die if I go across town so we don't
I will be fat, stressed, in debt and sleepless if I have children so we don't
I love food but I hate food so we are confused
I love drugs, alcohol, sex, shopping, gambling... because It's the only thing that makes me feel alive.
I love ice cream & it's even better than sex so ice cream is #1

3. Your mind loves loves loves what it thinks is familiar, 
if it's the least bit familiar the mind gravitates toward that 1st.

People reject love, money, relationships, jobs, health, entrepreneurship not because they are bad or undisciplined. 
It's because it's unfamiliar and the mind does not believe you really want it.
The mind rejects what is unfamiliar and that sets up the struggle with the conscious mind.

If you got $10,000,000 right now, either handed to you or from the lottery you would use it 
exactly the same way you currently treat $10, $100, $1000, and $10,000. 
Its just money.
It's not special and your mind only does what it's been programed to do and is familiar with.

We all think we'd do it differently but sorry we do what's familiar, so start now to treat money like you'd treat $10,000,000 and then when it comes, you will treat it the way you've practiced with the smaller amounts.

So if you save and invest money that's what you are trained to do,
if you spend money that's what you are trained to do.

Just watch, you repeat patterns reliably because your mind thinks that's what you want.

Everything is habit and has a Peak and a Valley

That's why Jesus said every Valley will be raised up and every Mountain will be lowered.
He was talking bout our set points getting to a stable state of being and that we will 
no longer be double minded when we seek 1st the Kingdom. So what's this Kingdom of Heaven?

The Kingdom is within and is what we call the Higher Mind , the God Mind and
we enter the Kingdom when we are born again and become as little children. 
When we trust with our mind and use the Imagination of the Child we step into our true power as adults.
Children are amazing, They just expect it's going to happen, they don't
rationalize. Everything is possible to them. It's foolishness to the "wise and learned". 

But until we enter into the Kingdom way, We are double minded and we have 2 set points between which we constantly bounce and that causes all our ups and downs.

The Roller Coaster of Life
We have a "this is the best it can get" set point and a " this is the worst I'll allow" set point.

It's our own personal Ground Hog Day. 
And it is very predictable, personal and reliable.

Our Set point spread reveals:
How messy or clean our home, bathroom, car, desk, living room, clothes... are allowed to be
How full or empty your bank account, fridge, gas tank, love relationships, friendships are.
How many or few clients, sales, opportunities, offers we give ourselves permission to have.

So are we doomed?

NO! We can change the pictures and words we say to ourselves and that starts making
things more familiar to the mind because it does not know the difference between 
what is imagined and what is the past. 

So just keep saying and imagining what you want the mind to become familiar with 
and you can have anything you seriously want without violating the rights of others.

Our subconscious mind will respond to an emotional visual story that's suggested to it
 if it feels NORMAL, FAMILIAR, NATURAL, INTERESTING, CURIOUS, FUN & SAFE.

So everything new that we want has to be designed and suggested in a delightful way 
like you are ordering a meal or a vacation. With some enthusiasm and with matter of fact expectation.

You ordered it, why wouldn't it be delivered. 
It's not your job to deliver it, it's your job to order it & enjoy it.

I'm going to use 2 symbols X & Y
X is what you have right now and Y is what you want your life to be.
X is what's Familiar, of the Earthly Family and your current condition is created from the multitude of thoughts that have become your habits and reliably deliver the results you get on a regular basis.

Stop and take a break and step back from it all. Set a New Target you want to reach in 1 area of your life. Happiness, Health, Relationships or Wealth.
Set this goal really high because this now becomes Your Big, Outside the Box, Worthy Goal and it includes all your Y type new ideas.  To get there you have to let go of the "Adult" identity of the X reality and become the Child who is dreaming of the Y fantasy.
This is the You who is now being "Born Again" and becoming a Child. It starts happening when you decide to become as a child & Trust like a child. 
let go and let God!

So in your imagination, opens up to this fantasy, your new NORMAL . Tell yourself a Y story without any IF's, AND's , BUTs, worries, doubts or fears.
Just leave that crap out of the story. 

It can look something like this. 
I love spending my time doing Y
I love earning Y amount of money from all the Y stuff I do
Lovely Y kind of people come into my life and buy my Y stuff 
I love living in a Y house in a Y neighborhood 
I love having Y health, I love eating y food, Drinking y water, I love that my cats have y health and I really love feeling Y when I wake up 
I love having a Y body and I'm so grateful my sleep is Y
I am supported in everything I do, I allow my Adult self to rest and my child to come out and create.
All is good, all is well, my path is smooth and my way is free from obstacles, clear, easy and effortless.
My body, mind and spirit are one, my head, heart and gut are one, I am this one and the One who's I am is being me now and forever more. So It is!

Say it and write it out, God who is Love,  is listening, taking the order then let it go.
Order your Y kind of day every day and let it go. Trust it will be delivered.
If you paint a picture in your mind of an all knowing, all present, all wise, all loving parent who wants to give to you freely and generously then you will allow yourself to become like a child in relationship to this One loving power.  It matters what your mind sees as the One who is delivering the desire. 

Review your new Identity before bed,  give thanks that this is what is true for you, send
 love and gratitude that you've been heard. Then go to sleep imagining the best. 
Father I know you hear me and respond to me. The Father is within, the person who has
all the authority to deliver the result. We are the child in a place of honor, love, respect and delight. 

Writing it down daily is one of the #1 secrets to getting what you really want.
It's not like you are bugging God. You are simply sending out your order/desire for the new day.
Jesus said pray Daily, "give us this day our daily bread". It's a principle based on how people ordered their bread every day from the baker. 
Bakeries still make bread every day and people buy what they want for that day.  

 Everyone eats the bread they get each day except for the Holy Day, the Sabbath and then you order double on Friday so you can rest from your "labor" on Saturday. 
So you can rest every 7 days.
Take a big break from asking once a week, on the same day and just relax in the provision you have. Make it your special day of freedom and gratitude and do something that really represents the freedom you are entering into with a whole mind of faith and courage to dream big.

 if you feel resistance and hear , "don't tell me what to do"... "You can't make me" ... "You're not the boss of me... "

Take a GIANT step back from the drama and see it as a clue that the new idea is the right direction.
HA HA!

Relax, go do something familiar and something you like, maybe a walk or stare out the window and dream about writing down the new vision of you. 
When the resistance subsides and you feel relaxed then do the writing. 

Write the story of you with all the details about your new relationship with everything:
Money, lifestyle, health, food, home, friends, clients, family, pets, car, clothes, relationships, neighborhood, city, state, country, world and even how your life will end. 
YES we can write the script for Everything.

And Remember​
There are only 3 things you need to know about your mind
1. It does what it thinks you want it to do
2. It responds to the imagined pictures and words you entertain
3. It will always guide you to what it Thinks is  familiar

Much love an delight!
Health, Prosperity, Wealth, Love & Joy.

Jody